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What should you consider when choosing an executor in Virginia?

On Behalf of | Jun 19, 2026 | Estate Planning & Probate

Choosing an executor is one of the most important parts of your estate plan. This person manages your money and legal affairs after you die. By learning what makes a good executor, you can appoint someone who follows your wishes and protects your legacy.

Virginia’s requirements for executors

Virginia law sets clear rules for executors. An executor must be at least 18 years old and mentally capable. Courts will generally not allow someone to serve if they are in prison for a felony. They can also reject someone they consider unfit.

You can name any qualified adult as your executor, so long as the court deems them “suitable and competent”. The court can reject your choice if it believes the person is not suitable or competent.

Prioritize people you trust

Your executor will access your accounts, documents and assets. They will pay your debts, file taxes and distribute your property. It is important to choose someone you trust completely.

Look for someone with a proven track record of honesty and integrity. This individual should be able to resist pressure from family members who might disagree with your estate plan. They must put your wishes above personal interests or family dynamics that could complicate the process.

Look for someone who is organized and detail-oriented

Estate settlement requires lots of paperwork and deadlines. Your executor must file court documents, keep records and update beneficiaries. Missed deadlines or lost papers cause legal problems and delays.

Consider choosing someone who demonstrates strong organizational skills in their daily life. This person should be comfortable managing multiple tasks simultaneously and maintaining accurate records. Attention to detail can prevent costly mistakes that might reduce the value of your estate.

Appoint a financially competent executor

Your executor does not need to be a financial expert, but they should know how to handle money. Executors must manage bank accounts, investments and property sales. Good financial skills help them make smart decisions for your estate.

If your preferred executor lacks financial experience, make sure they are willing to work with accountants, financial advisors and other professionals when needed. A good executor knows when to seek expert guidance rather than making uninformed decisions.

Seek someone willing and available

Serving as an executor takes time. Depending on the estate, the job may last several months or even years. The person you choose should have the availability to dedicate to this responsibility. Someone with overwhelming personal or professional obligations might struggle to fulfill executor duties properly.

Before naming someone as your executor, consider discussing the role with them. Make sure they understand what the position entails and confirm their willingness to serve. Choosing someone who accepts this responsibility willingly can ensure your estate is handled with care and diligence.

Consider appointing a co-executor

Virginia lets you appoint more than one executor. Co-executors must make decisions jointly, which can provide checks and balances against poor judgment.

However, the co-executor approach also has drawbacks. When they disagree, they can delay the estate process. The probate court may step in if your executors cannot compromise. This creates delays and costs you more money.

Both executors must sign documents and appear at hearings, which can complicate scheduling. Consider the relationship between potential co-executors and their ability to collaborate effectively before choosing this option.

Choosing the right executor can protect your loved ones

Appointing the right executor can help ensure your estate plan works as intended and provides clarity for your loved ones. By carefully evaluating trustworthiness, organizational ability and availability, you can make a choice that supports your goals. Taking time to consider these factors now can help protect your legacy, as well as the futures of those you love.